现在是凌晨一点零五分。夜深人静。陪伴着我的，只有天花板风扇转动的声音。
刚刚和一个之前追求过自己的男生聊天，勾起了一些回忆和昔日与他相处的画面。
我顿时感到有点悲伤及忧郁。为什么当时要顾虑那么多? 为什么当时那么挑剔？为什么有那么好的男生，我却没有好好地把握？
为什么人总是在失去的时候，才会懂得珍惜？
如今，我并没有想吃回头草的欲望。毕竟，人家现在似乎已经找到了自己的幸福。我承认我对他的感觉并没有很强烈。可是，他的内涵与人格却深深地吸引了我。每当脑海里浮现出他的脸孔时，心悬都会情不自禁地为之波动。可能是当时太注重外表了吧？或是他的男人味不够浓？唉，男性是感官动物的这个事实，任谁也改变不了！
算了。不经一事，不长一智。要是再给我遇到那么好的男人，我就算是赴汤蹈火，也不会放过。
加油哦！
ReplyDelete很多事情，很多人，很多东西，往往失去了，我们才懂得去珍惜，千百年来一直是这样。相信很多人也会有过你这样的想法，但一直这么想着，却一直在失去很多东西。那么是不是我们在拥有的时候没有珍惜这样的意识？想想也不是，经常会听到有这样的话：爱你所选，选你所爱；珍惜现在拥有的等等话语。不要等失去的时候才后悔，世上没有后悔的药卖。
ReplyDelete你的中文造诣很不错，佩服！
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ReplyDeleteIni mesti u tamau kasi saya baca :P
ReplyDeleteTranslate please.
我们往往都被自己太向往完美的态度模糊了寻找一个伴侣的真正原因..
ReplyDelete但是失去总不代表你有必要去感觉后悔，感觉落寞. 它就其实是个让你更了解自己真正的要求和让你改观的经验.. 而这篇博文就证明了你自己理解之造诣..
经得起时间考验的你, 一定会找到一个理想的另一半! 别担心 :) 因为有时当你太渴望一件事情的发生, 你往往却等不到.. 顺其自然吧! :)
treasure everything you have right now rather not regret in late.
ReplyDeleteian, thanks.
ReplyDeleteskyhawk, thank you very much. u know what? i really appreciate ur comments on my post. i m kinda attracted to ur maturity. :p
carpe diem,yala yala will translate to u word by word next time k?
qb, wow. didn't think u could come out with such a nice comment. got sense huh. =) i like it.
nicky, i will.
Hahah :p There's more to come where that came from! Hehe :) Thanks! And i didn't think you know Chinese until when i was reading through your posts and saw chinese characters.. Ah! There's a chinese lifeform! :D
ReplyDelete情感發芽需要天時地利人和的配合，更需要化學作用的配搭。男人本來就是喜歡犯賤的動物。輕易得來的關愛都不顯得珍貴。。不是麽？
ReplyDeleteU never know right? A mutual feeling is very important, sometimes trusting ur instinct may not be a bad idea, take this example, if u accepted someone half-heartedly and someone who is ur Mr.Perfect appears and comes to u, who will you choose?
ReplyDeleteNot sure if this is a right way but maybe this way of asking urself, u can at least be fair to the person too, that u are not just acceptign because u dun have other choice, but rather u are really into him... Mutual feeling is still very important, cause it puts 2 person in a fair position in a rs and not just one loves the other more or one being indifferent...
kidz, ur second paragraph does make sense.
ReplyDeleteblue, haha, i could use a word of comfort.